“If we don’t help kids survive, where is the world going?”
Dina Bourdakos, Kat’s mom

It all began with a lazy eye. Young Catherine “Kat” Demes had to sometimes turn her head slightly sideways to be able to look straight at people. Maybe she only needed prescription glasses. That is why her mother Dina took her to an ophthalmologist. A mother knows best, right? What Dina didn’t know was that her sweet little 4-year-old girl had just begun a very difficult medical journey.

After pointless visits to ophthalmologists and pediatricians, one specialist stood out: Dr. Wise, an elderly man in Sherbrooke. “Will this doctor be able to help our child,” wondered Dina and her husband Peter. He did. Kat’s head needed to be examined, not her eyes, he told them. They wondered how a simple eye problem could turn into such a medical mystery. They took Kat to the Montreal Children’s Hospital for an MRI.

The diagnosis hit like a bombshell. Kat had Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (DIPG), an inoperable tumour with a median survival rate under 12 months. As the doctors spoke to her and her husband, Dina could barely hear the words. Brain tumor. Inoperable. Radiation. She could not bear the truth. How could she? Her baby was going to die!

A lazy eye was now a question of life and death. Radiation treatments began. 30 sessions. Harsh on the body of a young and helpless child. But Kat never complained. Only once did she ask a question. It was a question that would break any mother’s heart. When her mouth started to be crooked, she asked “Mommy, when will my smile be straight again?” Dina stayed strong: “Your smile is perfect, my beautiful sunshine.”

The following weeks felt like a rollercoaster. Kat lost her ability to talk and walk. But a few months later, she began to seem like her old self. Good news: the tumor had shrunk! The family even went on a vacation - her Make A Wish vacation to Disney. Kat, her brother Christopher, daddy and mommy along with Kat’s aunt Voula (who Kat begged to come along): just like in the old days! Kat was having a blast.

But real life soon caught up and the tumour began to grow. Kat spent the last weeks of her young life laying and sleeping on the family sofa. She did not want her parents to carry her to her bed. She was in too much pain. Yet, despite her suffering, she tried to remain happy. Why? Her aunts made sure her favorite toys, her beloved Lalaloopsy dolls, surrounded her. Kat passed away on July 22, 2015. She was only 5 years old.

Kat D DIPG Fund

Dina and Peter, Catherine's parents, have set up the Kat D DIPG Foundation to raise funds for DIPG research. It's a way of honouring their child's memory, but also of raising awareness of the brain tumour that claimed their daughter's life, and giving hope to children suffering from this terrible disease by funding the brain cancer research projects of the renowned Dr. Nada Jabado. Dina's nephew came up with the idea of the Kat D Strong bracelets, which the family wears and distributes at all its events. Her brother-in-law, Perry Giannias, took the Foundation to another level by creating Expos Fest, an annual fundraising event geared towards children and Montreal Expos fans. The family is continuing its fundraising activities so that one day families facing DIPG can have a glimmer of hope.

Expos Fest 2019

Congratulations to the Expos Fest family, whose 4th edition raised a record $166,704. Through the hard work of these passionate volunteers, they have now reach an impressive half-a-million-dollar milestone in just 4 years.

Since the start of their fundraising activities, $540,000 has been donated towards Dr. Nada Jabado’s brain cancer research.

Thank you for your dedication. Kat did not pass away in vain.

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